if you are struggling getting a guy’s attention, maybe it’s just a bit too hard for him to work out you like him, and aren’t going to bite his head off if he even daires approach you.
I spoke on Sunrise this morning about how women can make it a bit easier on men.
For those of you without fast Internet, it was about the following:
If you want a guy to ask you out girls, then make it easy for them to do so.
While we want them to chase us, and put the effort in, often they are scared of rejection, and tend to be really bad at working out if they like you. So make it easier for them.
a. if they approach you and you don’t think they are your type, be polite anyway. you don’t know if they have a cute friend or who is watching you. it’s good practice regardless. by the way women out in groups are scary for men. break into smaller groups, and spend time scanning the room and making eye contact with people.
b. if they compliment you accept it
c. if they use a pick up line, accept it’s them trying to impress or start a conversation. everyone needs to start somewhere though if the pick pu line involves a large amount of innuendo they might not be looking for a date )
don’t go home with guys the first time you meet them. get them to take YOUR number, not the other way round. if they can’t be stuffed calling then that’s a pretty good indication they aren’t interested.
if they can’t be stuffed calling then that’s a pretty good indication they aren’t interested.
or maybe they are just worried that she won’t want to receive their call or that she already has a boyfriend or that she gave the wrong number. Or maybe they lost the number.
It’s an equal society remember.